Kinks / Interests

pain kink, breathplay and degradation (ex. insults, spanking, choking)

praise kink (ex. telling me I'm good or complimenting me and also soft touches like hat pats or forehead kisses for example)

temperature play + wax/food play is okay (ex. cold/warm) ❄️☀️🌡️

Sensation Play, Impact play. Pleasure Control. Edge Play, Denial, Overstimulated.

sleeping kink 💤 (receive as btm mainly)

So far I mainly get sleepy and have mild cataplexy attacks during sex when I btm.

Restraint/restrictions like with eye contact, handholding, pressure hold with wrists, full body hugging. I enjoy deep pressure touching.

Not into everything to do with exhibitionism and dogging but I do have an outdoor kink.

I also like doing stuff in cars or public spaces provided it is still somewhat private, I'm not into being watched by others with this interest.

I also like clothed sex and enjoy mirror play.

Lingerie, Light Bondage, Leather, Rope, Collars, Intoxication.

Cock warming, Frottage, Oral, Tribbing, Pearl Necklace, Felching, Cream Pie, Rimming.

Knife and Blood play. I am interested and have done some of this but I am not fully comfortable being involved.

Soft Limits

Sexting roleplay: I have a daddy kink, omegaverse, breeding, pregnancy, period sex,

oviposition + monster/alien/creature roleplay, brainwashing/hypnotism, dr/patient, master/servant, employer/boss, breeder/pet roleplay

petplay with kittenplay, puppyplay, bunnyplay, milking cowplay 🐱🐶🐮💖🎀🐇

Blindfolded or Night Play with CNC roleplay.

Not everything to do with watersports but I have at least a few things. I am interested in trying PIV with peeing inside.

lately I've been interested in trying a gag

I am more likely to do stuff on my soft limits list when I am in my hypersexual period.

Hard Limits

Raw, and moving from anal to anything else, for hygiene reasons.

No scat play. No breath play.

No Drinking/Swallowing with Water Sports. (On my end)

Name calling is fine, just never misgendering, forced fem/sissification or mirroring forced detrans corrective rape.

Pre-determined safe word. I usually go with Green, Yellow, Red, cause they’re the most common and easy for us to remember.

Nonverbal is three snaps or three hard taps.

If I am in sleep paralysis mode, I may try to signal using three slow blinks. I might enter this state either because of cataplexy, I just woke up, or my body thought I was going to sleep but I am still awake.

No photography or video without expressed permission.

No marks I can’t cover with normal work clothes, seasonally appropriate.

'Anytime, Anywhere' without asking before each scene, this includes my sleep kink heavily

What is nonverbal/Semiverbal?

Nonverbal/Semiverbal: have trouble thinking in words, at other points executive dysfunction (in this case how to go from thinking a sentence to actually saying it out loud) gets in our way.

Some autistic people are nonverbal all the time and never speak verbally, other autistic people may go nonverbal when they’re stressed, upset or tired but are otherwise able to speak at other times.

Going- nonverbal means we aren't always nonverbal but have now become nonverbal.

Basically it's like being blocked and having restrictions.

We have some sysmates that consider themselves selectively mute, but that isn't the same with being unable to speak due to our brain blocking our language functions.

We are not sure what others think about selective mutism, this is just our understanding of it as being not the same thing. Our understanding of it is that it comes under discomfort/anxiety related reasons.

Expanding terms

Nonscribal: The complete inability to produce written or typed language.

Semiscribal: The ability to produce written or typed language, but with difficulty or conditions on what can be produced.

Nonlexic - The total loss of ability to comprehend, process, and produce language.

Semilexic - The partial loss of ability to comprehend, process, and produce language.

How it is for us:

Some of us are mute, semiverbal or go semiverbal/nonverbal. Some of us experience being or go nonscribal/semiscribal & nonlexic/semilexic, some of the time or all of the time due to various reasons. Common reason is our brain is overwhelmed and can no longer process certain functions.

If it is okay to touch, some of us who are like this prefer to use print on hand ✋ type communication. This means we use our fingers to write stuff on your hand, palm, or even back (if we are walking for example or something.)

Some of us will gesture, as we may only know a little sign language, we are trying to learn and practice auslan but our progress isn't that great as a system.

Sometimes we will use discord or text. We recently got an app to use on our phone to write words and flash people what we want to say, but not sure if we will keep it, we might want to try out some others.

We are considering getting a small blackboard or whiteboard we may carry around too, as our phone might not always be on us or is available to use. We are very picky so, we haven't found the one yet.

Everyone in our system may have times when they are nonverbal /semiverbal, & we aren't pro-DX with being Autistic, but we link this experience to it if we are, as an explanation.

This experience is something that can happen, and it can happen more easily for a certain few in our system as they get overwhelm and easily stressed.

Important sysmates to remember for this:

Always mute: Fable, Redd

Always Semiverbal/speaking: Cloud, Red, Pitch

Often goes semiverbal/Nonverbal: Liko

Before You follow:

If you meet our DNI please do not follow, our stances just state our views.

I'm not a singular person, If you don't understand what that means please click here

We have PDs but it may only belong to a few sysmates, or others might only show a few traits of it cause of passive influence or blending.

We often get distracted easily, so we might have ignored your messages or if we are talking, we might not reply back to everything.

Some of us avoid using phobia/phobic so instead we use antagonistic/antagonism, misic/misia, & anti to tag along with cissexism, intersexism, exorsexism, &c.

Some of us refuse to use ableist language and swears, others are needing to work on unlearning this way of talking still, so know you may see this from us.

Some of us use and require tone Indicators without them it can be hard for some of us to know what you mean for sure. If you can remember to use them, then we will appreciate it. (& no you do not have to.)

Some of us use typing quirks, but we try and CW that for some that do need alt text. Alt text may be provided but might not be available right away.

We don't use Part Language, but sometimes we might use parts as a term for headmates.

You can call us alters, personalities, headmates, sysmates, facets, plurans and c.

Don't Follow if:

If you are gonna call our factives factkin, as an insult or not. Or our fictives roleplay. Basically if you are anti- introjects.

If you crap on straight queers. Transhets, straight intersex people, straight n-b people or straights that are split attracted.

You support or participate in fakeclaiming systems. You support or participate in fakeclaiming in general.

If you have any PDs in your DNI, like BPD, ASPD, HPD & NPD. Some people in our system might have BPD, HPD or NPD as well.

If you don't respect those that refer to themselves as queer and those in their community who are also queer, as queer. This is referring to self-identifying queers. Basically, if you think queer is a slur in all contexts.

you are a REG (we will not deal with ace/aro exclusionists, not into truscum/transmeds, SWERFs, TERFs and the likes aka gender critical.)

Stances & Views:

Opinions can vary within a system, so can look contradictory from the outside, so please expect that.

We are all responsible for the actions done by our system. We will try our best to uphold that, owning it and making up for wrongs.

We are against exclusionist mindsets within OSDD/DID communities including discrimination toward systems of mixed or non-traumatic origin.

We support sdx. Not everyone has the means to get a DX. Cause of money, time or the stigma they will get if they are formally dx'd. & Other issues too.

We even sdx our formal dxs. We have one legal Identity and can't individually get DX on our own, so our system peeps are free to sdx or undx our formal dx's on their own. What applies to us, may not apply to everyone in the system, basically.

We support nonhuman identity, otherkin, ect.

Our political leanings are anti-capitalism, pro-choice, queer anarchism, antifa, supportive of BLM, intersectional feminism and neurodiversity

Neo-labels, micro-labels, xenogenders, neurogenders, neo-pronouns, multi-oriented, multi-gendered, genderfluid, SAM oriented, nounself pronouns, emojiself pronouns, mogai friendly.

Pro he/him lesbians, she/her gay men. Pronouns are not restricted to gender or orientations to make somone a real gay man/lesbian. Binary guys can go by pronouns other than he/him. Binary girls can go by pronouns other than she/her.

Don't need gender dysphoria to be trans and cis folks may and still be cis. Cis people can have a mismatched body map as well and shouldn't have to be trans to transition or want to.